i have only been truthful with everyone here about everything in my life: sex, age, where i work, my bipolar, etc. where this idea that i would be lying about something as serious as this has caught me completely off guard. someone accused me of things i may or may not be doing in my life. i defended myself against this... and now this is has gotten out of hand. this issue is the main reason i have decreased my time being here. i'm not saying these for attention. completely the opposite. EDF2 means a great deal to me & i enjoy my time here. i find you to be a very enlightening group of people & like what you all have to say. i'm sorry for anything i may have done.