Hell, I'm 21 and I regret not hopping on more dicks. However, that's not to say I'm unhappy. Just probably would have been fun to boink a few different guys. Think about it, Matt, if you stay with Jade, you will never have sex. Ever. All of the orgasms you will ever have will be from wet dreams (did she says those were okay?) and by the time you wake up, the best of it will be over. Maybe even by hours. If you're holding out in hopes she'll give in, you gotta remember that it's not just her sick views that are keeping her from having sex, it's her sexuality. If she truly is asexual while holding these views, she'll never give in. Asexuals do have sex but those ones don't think the same way Jade does. That's like dating a lesbian in hopes she'll one day, out of the blue, crave some dickings. You can do the same thing you're doing now just by being her friend. You can be Jades friend and fix her and still be able to get some action.