I know alot of people know this, if not everyone, but I was a chick dumb enough into thinking guys could be friends with girls. When I was young I was a tomboy, and I find myself relaxing around guys more than girls. In fact, all of my best friends have always been men and I rarely have any girl friends. I've been called more than a friend by these individuals, I've been called 'another sister' to all of them. And always when a girlfriend comes into the picture, I always end up just getting 'dumped'. I never allow myself to fall in love with my friends, but I really appreciate the company and fun times with them. And the heartbreak I feel after every guy thats called me special to them, more than a sister to them, only to be passed up cause their gf doesn't like them hanging out with any chick despite how long we've been friends has finally been too much for me. In short, I cringe whenever a friend calls me a sister, something I used to feel pride in. Because I know I'm not, I know it's just something nice they say instead of meaning. Guys still talk and chill with their sisters even if they have a gf or are married. I'm not a best friend, I can't be because I'm a girl and girl's can only be a guys best friend if they're dating. I don't hate a guy for loving a girl and being with her. But I am so embittered when they never hold true to the simple promise of always being a friend no matter what. TL;DR BAWWWWWWWWWWWWW I have less friends with every year.